Wednesday 8 May 2024

The Same Does Not Mean Equal

Ferretfingers’ whole education was within special needs provision.   

Some places were better than others.  
Some were excellent, others started out good and declined. 
His early years and primary special schools were excellent, supportive and understanding
From 11 to 16 he was in a unit within a mainstream school that started out as The Communication Base for pupils with autism.  This was changed to Additional Needs Faculty for those with any sort of need, ignoring the fact that not all special needs are the same.   
Looking back and learning more I now realise why he started picking holes in his own arms.  
He didn’t have the language to explain that there was anything wrong or what it was.   
There is huge guilt attached to this admission.
His special needs sixth form was excellent.
Then we were persuaded to place him in the brand new wonderful ‘autism accredited’ unit in Tyne Met College.  I visited and found three beautifully day-lit rooms on the first floor, with another three downstairs for those even more demanding than Ferretfingers.
The next year these rooms were handed over to the Marketing Department and the pupils went into three smaller gloomy rooms on the ground floor, with security grills on the windows.  
Imagine how a mother feels on seeing that.
During the last weeks of his second year they took him, without, as far as I know, any warning or preparation (of an autistic person!) for a ‘taster session’ of whatever they planned for his third year.  Not surprisingly he walked out at the first opportunity and went back to his own classroom.
He was judged to have “refused the course.”
I didn’t bother to follow it up, complain or make a fuss.
I was too damn tired, disgusted and fed up of the lot of them.
 
From Facebook Archives
8 May 2014 at 10:29
Ferretfingers’ review at Tyne Met College yesterday.
His two year "Certificate in Learning Skills" course no longer exists so next year he will be doing Performing Arts (we're told it's good for improving confidence, communication and bringing people out of themselves) but still with functional Maths and English.
However instead of 4 days 10-3.30 it will be 3 days 9.30-4.30 - "same number of hours but fewer days"*.
It's Monday to Wednesday so his day at the Day Centre will have to be changed and something found for the extra day
I popped into the Day Centre on the way home to tell them - 
"Oh Thursday and Friday are our busiest days" - 
but the manager was grateful for fair warning for September.
Oh and college term ends 27 June so we'll have the whole of July to keep him occupied - Thunderthighs'll be jealous!
Pink Kitchen  Nowt like a bit of change to make life easy(!)
Ms KA And they never learn!  Why is college not ASKING what is NEEDED instead of telling you what they are doing to you?

*The “same number of hours but fewer days” idea might work for mainstream pupils who have the ability to work independently.  The idea the same is applicable to special needs pupils with learning disabilities and communication difficulties would be laughable were it not tragic.


 

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