Thursday, 18 September 2025

Aunt Vera

I have had the loveliest morning.
First I went over to Cousin Daisy’s, as her daughter Fifi D is up for a visit, and to drop off their birthday cards and some apples.  We had coffee, a catch up, cuddles and a laugh, and I came away with my birthday card and a box of chocolates
Then, as I was so close to the coast, I took myself to the Briardene car park and had a Mr Whippy icecream sitting on the beach.
Home and this popped up in Facebook memories.
Another funereal one, but life’s like that sometimes...
18 September 2015 at 12:18
I've just come back from Aunt Vera's funeral.  She was Uncle Laurie's widow; they met and married some years after he lost his first wife Auntie Ina to cancer.
Vera was a very proper lady, always immaculate and on first meeting seemed cool and aloof.  
 But she was actually very kind and generous.  Almost every time she saw me she would press a note in my hand with a "get something for the boys", and sometimes a cheque would arrive just before the summer holidays 
"for treats".  Being properly brought up I always rang to thank her and we usually sent her a postcard when on our travels.
Sadly she was too poorly to come to Ferretingers' 21st teaparty, but when I rang to invite her she said "Ring in a couple of weeks and we'll have a coffee."  
Ah well...
I often asked if there was anything we could do for her, but she had been a good friend and neighbour and her friends and neighbours looked after her in return.  
It was nice to meet her niece and 'that side of the family' who we'd never seen because she was quite a private person too.   
She was loved and she will be missed - and not just for the treat money.
Ms DeLune  She sounds a lovely lady. X
Fifi D  She was in my thoughts. See you this week sometime. Xxx
Henlady  She does sound nice.
Mrs Lasagne  She sounds a lovely lady Ben,thinking about you ,love and hugs xxx

 

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