Thursday, 16 July 2026

Planning

From Facebook Archives

16 July 2019 at 18:49
It's been a day for travel planning. 
Llandovery cottage booked for half term and 2 nights in Premier Inn, Richmond, for a Mummy's Midweek Adventure.
The latter is going to be a bit sad. I'm meeting up with my late friend Paula's brother to collect some keepsakes and crafty stuff she assigned to me (and DrD).   
So we shall be in her flat without her there, which will be hard.
Paula was insistent that I should have regular Mummy's Weekends Away (marked MWA in letters and diaries) so I think she'd be quite pleased at a midweek adventure.
Especially as I'm being really bold and driving down!
Bess Cavalier  Are you taking DrD or meeting her there?  
I've still got those ribbons I promised you.  Will bring them to Oxford in September.
Bentonbag  I've emailed DrD to ask if she'd like to come with.  If she can't I'll bring her stuff back with me and take it over to Consett (or meet her in town).   
Could you use a pair of elasticated waist viscose trousers (black with white pattern)? They're short in the leg for me and too flared for my liking - flap about just under my calves as I walk, in a sort of Star Trek fashion.
Bess Cavalier  I'll give them a go but the flappiness sounds as if it might be a design fault that irritates everyone. 
Later
Bentonbag  Sadly DrD family commitments mean she can't come with 
- Fester is angling for me to take Thunderthighs, but that's off my agenda.


 

Wednesday, 15 July 2026

Clothing Planning Jamming Laughing

Happy St Swithen’s Day

From Facebook Archives

15 July 2009 at 10:02

Looking for as huge a t-shirt as possible for Thunderthighs to use as a nightshirt.   
A long generous XXL would do at a pinch. 
Do they do XXXL?
MrMull  Well cotton traders (http://www.cottontraders.com) do up to 5XL in some ranges. They used to sell a microfleece nightshirt 
(I have 2) but don't seems to anymore. But do have a look.
Bentonbag  Thanks Mr Mull, they have an outlet at Royal Quays so I shall go and have a look there.
Mr Mull  Glad I could help.  Being of more generous proportions myself I know how difficult it is to find stuff.  Over 25 years ago (in Newcastle) when I was looking for clothes an 'assistant' took Anna to one side and suggested I should look at their 'short and portly range' in another store.  Plus ca change...
(We have been regular Cotton Traders catalogue and online shoppers since)

15 July 2019 at 21:12

Have spent most of this evening trying to find a holiday cottage in/near Llandeilo for October half term - may have got one in Llandovery and awaiting reply from Llandeilo one.

15 July 2020 at 14.55

We've made the first jam of the year.
5.75lb blackcurrant & windfall apple (jelly) 
FifiD  Yum x
Henlady  My class used to enjoy your jams so much at break.
Dulcima  Lots of apples ripening on my tree, but not ripe yet.  Must check the blackcurrants, though!
Bentonbag  We've had a helluva June drop what with the high winds and it seemed a pity to waste them. So Fester cut them up and we boiled them in about a gallon of water then put the hand held liquidiser through and put the resulting mush inside a pillowcase. 
We boiled the blackcurrants in the juice that came out and then added sugar to make jam the usual way. I think we may have overboiled it a bit because the result is very sticky - and quite tart.
Dulcima  Have just collected 2 punnets of blackcurrants today, but apples nowhere near ready, the windfalls are tiny. But I will be making blackcurrant jam soon!
 
15 July 2024 at 21.57
Just been to see the first night of Waiting For God at the People's Theatre with 
Mrs Bursar and Mrs Lasagne and had a really good laugh; both at the play and with them.
Mrs Lasagne  It’s always lovely to go out together xxx loved seeing you
Cousin Daisy  Great to hear you had a good night together. Nothing beats a good laugh. Xxx


 

Tuesday, 14 July 2026

Just Turn It Off

Sensory Borrow Bags are lovely thought but ... 

Piped music is something I feel very strongly about due to Ferretfingers’ problems with sensory overload and music in particular. 
I am not alone, there is an organisation called Pipedown which campaigns against piped music.
By law organisations are meant to give ‘reasonable adjustments’ for people with disabilities.  
One would think a request to turn the music off would be met with understanding, especially with a young person standing before them, visibly agitated, and saying loudly “the lady will turn the music off, please.”
However I’ve lost count of the times we’ve been met with “Oh we can’t do that” and/or “we can turn it down a bit” or “we can put you in a corner where there isn’t a speaker”. 
The last is a speciality of restaurants and, guess what, there is never a corner that the music doesn’t reach.  More than once I’ve been told “Oh we have to have it for the ambiance”; silly me I thought people went to restaurants to eat and concerts for the music.
And you'd be amazed at the number of waiting staff who have relatives with autism who aren't bothered by music at all, so what's his/our problem. 
We have walked out of, or not walked into, numerous eating places because of this.
And left a large tip in those places, usually independents, kind enough to understand and turn it off.
In Curry’s Silverlink last year I was countered with “he’s got his ear-defenders” and “we have a quiet hour”. 
From Facebook Archives
14 July 2023 at 14.08
They could save themselves the cost of ear defenders by simply turning the piped music off. 
That would also help the elderly and hard of hearing. 
It would also save the cost of the Performing Rights Society licence to play recorded music (they organise the royalties). 
Aldi, Lidl and other shops still manage to provide a decent service and make a profit without subjecting customers to some manager’s choice of muzak.
Mrs Melodeon  Well said Ben.
Drummerman  Muzak very annoying, although Tesco in Berwick has a quiet hour every morning when they turn it off, have less strident announcements and “turn down the beeps on the tills”.
Bentonbag  Wonderful.  So people with, or caring for and accompanied by those with, sensory issues have an hour a day in which to do their shopping.  I wonder how people would react if they decided to put wheelchair ramps in for an hour a day.
Drummerman   Don’t know how long it will last for, either. The Evesham branch used to have a “slow” till where the cashier was encouraged to chat and put things through at a comfortable pace: apparently this was a trial- seems to have been replaced by do-it-yourself checkouts.
Sandy   Co-ops are the worst and the Morrisons in leek.  They play the music so loud I think I should be wearing a John Travolta spangly suit.
Bentonbag  Now that I would like to see...
Bess Cavalier  As you say, other supermarkets manage without the muzzak - they are pretty noisy places anyway and really only the cashier needs to hear the beep on a till as an item goes through.
Bentonbag  In Canada, back in the 1980s, we were in a supermarket where instead of a beeb there was a computerised voice saying the item and the cost. Much more useful to all concerned that a beep, and (probably) not that hard to achieve with barcodes and IT.
Bess Cavalier I think that would be particularly useful for someone with visual impairment.
Mrs Westie  It's not even 'music ' ,it’s just someone wailing and boom boom.x