From Facebook Archives
Life with Fester, Ferretfingers and Thunderthighs: an obsessive entomologist turning mining historian and our two autistic sons. This blog has been prompted by family and friends reading facebook posts and saying "You should write a book". But I don't know how to go about that so they'll have to make do with this.
Thursday, 12 January 2023
Like Buses
Wednesday, 11 January 2023
Woody Smells
From Facebook archives
Later
Tuesday, 10 January 2023
Moving All Around Again
Last Saturday morning I put the link to Schak’s Moving All Around (Jumpin’) on Facebook and Twitter and got some interesting comments, and a screen grab, from friends.
On Sunday afternoon Mrs Leftfoot called for the first time this year for a cup of tea and a chat.
I brought Youtube up on the Tivo box, searched and started the movie.
Ferretfingers is aurally hypersensitive so very particular about what music he will listen to: he frequently calls out “The lady will turn the music off” in shops and cafes.
After tea he was at his laptop and called out "Come and see this Mum".
PS I have recently learnt that Fester doesn’t know what a flash-mob, Whack-a-mole or gimp is. How did I end up with one so innocent?
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PPS Ms Doozer, who put the screengrab on Facebook from whence I nabbed it, commented “Felix looks …. Different”
Monday, 9 January 2023
Christmas Is Concluded
Christmas is all packed and put away.
The goose carcase is boiled and the stock used to make soup. It includes all the vegetables unused, or left over, from Christmas dinner as well as pulses, pearl barley and rice.
Thunderthighs has cut the tree up for firewood.
The choir of angels, baubles, tinsel, socks, Santa hats etc are in boxes and bags in the top cupboard in Ferretfingers’ room.
The cards have all been listed for next year, backs cut off and fronts in a bag to take to LDNE for next year's Christmas crafts.
The candles and candleholders are back in the drawer or on the delft-rack in the hall. Mrs Quilt has gifted me some lovely glass candlesticks which are in the glass cupboard for next year. The redundant glass tea-light holders are washed and with them.
The angel chimes are back in their box, in the drawer.
The mantelpiece has been dusted and polished. The clock and ornaments have returned, dusted and polished, from their holidays on the piano, the windowsill and the top of the corner cupboard.
The wicker basket of dollies to be dressed is back on the Christmas tree (and coffee) table, soon to be accompanied by the different bags Ferretfingers and I use for going to Ouseburn Farm, his day centre, knit’n’natter and the WI.
There’s even been hoovering.
The chocolates have almost all gone.
All that’s left is half the cake, denuded by Ferretfingers of any icing and sweeties.
Sunday, 8 January 2023
Enabling
Once upon a time there was an organisation called The Adult Learning Alliance which did various practical classes for people with learning disabilities and autism.

