Wednesday 10 August 2022

Benign Neglect

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10 August 2010 at 21:25 
Due to maternal neglect Thunderthighs ran his own bath tonight (for the first time).  
Bringing the washing in I overheard: 
Fester  "Did you do that yourself?" 
Thunderthighs "Yes." 
Fester, enthusiastically, 
"Wow that's really good.   
You're having a really good week." 
Thunderthighs, dubiously, 
"So far?" 
Woolerwoman You could never be accused of maternal neglect.  Just think what a huge step forward Thunderthighs has made in realising it was bath time and he could do something about it!  On a very much smaller scale, my daughter made our dinner on Sunday - first time she has ever cooked for me although she has cooked for herself and friends often. 
Bentonbag  I am a firm believer in benign neglect.  Works well on cacti and some other plants and certain aspects of child rearing. 
Woolerwoman  Thanks Ben, interesting point.  Now you mention it, I've heard on wildlife programmes that most animals esp mammals and birds, do indeed practice a programme of benign neglect so as to encourage the young to fend for themselves.   
Not easy though is it?

 

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