My first May Day on Facebook
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1 May 2009 at 13:40 ·
Not taken on May Day morning |
1 May 2009 at 22:47 ·
Life with Fester, Ferretfingers and Thunderthighs: an obsessive entomologist turning mining historian and our two autistic sons. This blog has been prompted by family and friends reading facebook posts and saying "You should write a book". But I don't know how to go about that so they'll have to make do with this.
1 May 2009 at 08:39 ·
1 May 2009 at 13:40 ·
Not taken on May Day morning |
The Spanish Battery, a cliffy promontory at the mouth of the Tyne, has always been a favourite spot for our family.
The photo is one I took of Mum and Dad there back in 1970 (hence the quality).
After a weekend afternoon visit to his Dad’s, Phil and I would eat a take-away there (usually but not always fish and chips).
Whatever the weather, whether the windows are wound down when it’s warm, or even not so warm, to hear the waves or up to keep out the wind, sitting in a car looking out between the piers helps sooth my soul.
From Facebook Archives
Monday 30 April 2018
Early this morning I got a phone call from the day centre. Their minibus’s windows had been put out overnight, might I be able to bring Ferretfingers in myself? As I had an optometrist’s appointment at 10.10, and it’s on the way there was no problem. I also brought him home at 3pm because there was no way the windows were going to be replaced the same day, as they’d hoped. Thunderthighs came with me for the ride.
There’s a load of road-works going on the Coast Road, including replacing Norham Road road bridge over it. You can turn towards the coast at the bridge, but to come back here I’d have either had to wend my way up through Shiremoor or head coastwards and find a way of turning around.
When Ferretfingers got in the car I asked whether we should go home or to the coast.
No choice really.
So I drove up onto the Spanish Battery and we sat there looking out between the piers, and had an ice-cream.
The sea wasn’t so much angry as having a nervous breakdown. The wind was fierce and constantly changing so no sooner did a wave decide which way it was going than another slapped it in the face and sent it in a different direction. White horses right out to the horizon and spume flying up when a roller hit the pier.
Ferretfingers gurgled with glee when we went to the ice cream van, he loves being buffeted by the wind.
Just brought Ferretfingers back from the barbers and he asked for "Uncle Stephen's* electric razor"
(which the boys use for their occasional shaves)
When we asked him why he said "For my bald"
We assured him that with his genes he was going to go bald soon enough.
But I'm going to keep an eye on the razor and made a dash if I hear any buzzing.
This post and thread from Facebook Archives is seven years old.
Hoorah
The Social Worker just rang to say Ferretfingers’ Support Plan has been approved so he can now go to The Rising Sun Farm on Fridays as well as Independent Lives on Thursdays.
I'd be slightly more impressed if:-
a) he hadn't needed this extra day since last September
b) I hadn't first contacted Adult Social Care warning them he'd need another day last June
c) his previous budget was from Oct 13 to Oct 14 - but was considerably underspent so services carried on unquestioned by anybody.
d) I found out about, filled in the forms and requested the Rising Sun provision in February.
What an ingrate I am...
I had despaired of finding anything for today, until I clicked on Memories in Facebook and this came up.
27 April 2021
*We do now have a stand alone microphone which has made zoomeetings a lot easier.